LuV VS FrIEndSHIp (2)

After reading I realized such things cannot be learnt by reading but through experience. It is not a concept to learn but a feeling to feel. Irrespective of which is great, one thing is , it is related to a feeling that is related to the heart. Whenever we say love, it starts with mother's love. So here is an interesting story, which some body shared with me, long back ago. Mother's love Some body said love is a game! play it. I think they watch tennis too much. Because, it is the only game where we used to hear the word 'love all' ( even though we don't do it i.e. We don't love all). If we go by the spirit of the game 'love all' means the score is zero for both. Are they realized that love is nothing but zero zero state.( starting from empty state)? I do not know. Some body told me that if you want to write an article on love it should be in your mother tongue where you have command over the language. I do not know whether he is right or wrong because we don't love English but make only friendship with English. If we look into the other side of the coin, " all relations are economic relations". This is the famous quote from greatest economic. As a student when I read it first, I thought it is nonsense. After a period of time I realized the reality in it.( some of the readers may not accept this view still, but with experiences they accept the reality). Child'd love: Why do you like children. Do we love them or they love us? That is the power of smile on the face. Is serving is loving? : mother serves though out the day . She loves us but all will not love her. A mother had 10 children. For the mother none of them is burden. But for all children she is a burden.. Then coming to the friendship, tell about your friend I will tell about you. Friendship might be slightly edge over love because of your personality, character, behaviour which depends upon your friends.( some of you may not agree with it, but I have justification. Take an example if someone has friends who do not believe in love more or less he also will have the same opinion. ( but there may be exceptions) Do you believe in love or friendship? Definitely majority will say that they believe in friendship rather than love.( may be because of the past experiences or what is called learning . That may be the reason why I said friendship is greater than the love. Generally many articles start with definitions. Love s great as long as you are giving. Love starts its true colour the moment you start expecting it to receive it. Friendship may defined as giving and taking ( sorry it is not a barter system). Give when there is a need and take when resource is available or you are in need of it.. The value of friendship has come down because we start taking not giving ( of course it doe not expect). You may have many friends and you love only few of them. Love does not expect consideration. True love vs true friendship Of course the title is very catchy. Some of you may say that as long as it is true love it is great. I will also accept the same but there are no word or actions like 'true love' ,'false love' 'not true love'. If it is there , then it is there otherwise it is not there. There is no room for such word like 'true love'. and .'not true love' 'good love' or 'bad love'. The same thing is applicable to friendship also. One of my friends told that the title is itself is wrong because there two are different not at all related together. According him there are there alternatives. First one is love and friendship goes together. Second one is there is two are not all related. Third one is Love Vs Friendship. You may have different views depending upon your experiences. Please add your experience to it and add value to it. May god bless all of us with lot of love and friendship!